Not As Perfect As You Think

Have you ever looked at someone and instantly thought they had their stuff together, instantly felt intimidated and then get a feeling that everything in their life is "perfect"?  You are making this assumption without knowing too much about them other then that first impression.

This happens to me all the time....on the side of being "judged". Here's the deal, am I perfect? Do I have everything together perfectly? What about having the perfect kids, hubby and family? NOPE, not at all. Everyone has their strengths and challenges, up and downs, goods and bads. How do I differ? I'm just able to handle situations different then some. 

Back a few years ago, anything negative that happened to me would control my life. It seemed that a really good positive would happen followed by a negative. It got to point that I seemed to be attracting these situations. A situation happened to me that forever changed me for the positive, looking back I am forever grateful for it. I had to do a lot of work to pick myself up out of the rut such as, eliminating non-sense drama and the people who fed it. When a challenge came along, take a look at the lesson within it instead of automatically reacting negatively. Figuring out that when someone said something to me that could be taken as a negative, I needed to understand that what they were throwing my way had nothing to do with me and all to do with their insecurities. I could go on and on with the lesson that have made me who I am today.

Do I walk around more confident then 2 years ago? Yes. Do I still have the everyday challenges that everyone else has? Yes. I'm not perfect. I'm just able to take a situation (big or small), look at the big picture, take the lesson and learn from it. I want to help YOU with all this. I want to pass on what I have learned over the past 2 years and help you handle things better and find the lesson in it. I guarantee once you work thru the first couple challenges, you will see a difference and be able to work thru things on your own. That I promise you! <3